Posts I don't write

I somethings think about how this blog is sort of a highlight real of the good or exciting parts of our life, which isn't really a full representation.  Sort of like a photo album, it doesn't capture the bad days.  I think I'm ok with that.  At the same time, I also don't tend to write about some of the really sweet moments, because they don't have a photo to go with them.  I don't tend to take the time to reflect here.  

A couple nights ago was one of those evenings I would have pictured before having children, when I imagined what family life might be like.  Funny how rare those times can be. :)  Alasdair came home from work while it was still light out, and Adara and I were playing outside.  The kids had already eaten, so they were happy, and our dinner was in the oven.  Exhausted from the day, I lay on the couch with my feet up while Alasdair played guitar (at Emily's request:) and the girls ran and danced and laughed together.  

Simple, but so sweet.

(unrelated recent pictures)

Easter in MA

We had a burst of Spring weather in time for Easter last weekend. :)  On Saturday we took the girls to a sheep festival at a local farm/wildlife center.  Adara loved watching the sheep being herded "seep!  seep!  baaa." and all of the kids liked the chance to pet some animals, and generally run around outside together.  Sunday was an Easter egg hunt (set up by dad, who used different parts of the yard for the younger set and the older set - big success), church, and lunch & a walk around Grassy Pond.   More photos in the March album and videoswh on the youtube channel (you might need to scroll down).

 best friends.  
(and why yes, I let my 3 year old out of the house wearing a nightgown as a shirt.)

Adara's language

I am loving this stage: Adara is starting to be able to communicate with us pretty well, but most of it is still her own little language.  Emily likes to tell me (often incorrectly, I think!) what Adara is saying, and will inform me that I need to learn Adara's language.

A few of my favorites lately...

Dat - Granny

Nanul - Daniel
Rolalie or Rolalilili - Rosalie

mahanu - We have no idea what this word is, but she's been using it since very early on to mean something like "I want that"

yak-um - thank you, or you're welcome
piddy - pretty
buhtah - butter.  her current favorite food.
fweet - feet

She's obsessed with pointing out eyes ("ice!"), ears, noses, heads ("het") and fweet, and has a good repertoire of animal sounds.  She talks up a storm when she's comfortable and not on camera... and is pretty serious about refusing to perform on command.

ADDITIONS:
A few things I forgot to include here...
- If Adara hears you say "one" she will add "two"
- Very often when I tell her she can't do something, she will say "why?" even thought I'm pretty sure she doesn't know what that means... but she hears her big sister respond that way!  Makes me laugh every time.
- She calls pizza "peetzy"

Wildlife

We rarely get out as a family to do fun kid-things, but a few weeks ago we took the girls to a little "wildlife encounter" at the local community center.  I expected the presenter to have things like birds and turtles to show, and I settled Emily into the 2nd row of kids sitting on the floor.  Imagine my surprise when the man reached into a box and pulled out an alligator!  It was actually a pretty good little display, he had an artic fox, a hedgehog, a python, some exotic bird, a coati mundi, and a kangaroo!   The animals came from the W.I.L.D Center.  Once they open their new public zoo, we'll have to go visit.

Meeting the hedgehog.

Fitting Visit

I really lucked out in the mother & mother in law department. :)  Friday morning the girls & I called my mom to chat and I mentioned we were staying home from our activities for the day because the girls were still sick.  Fifteen minutes later she called me back to ask if she could come visit & watch the girls for the afternoon.  Yes!  She drove three hours round trip to be with the girls for 4 hours, so I could run a million errands (about two weeks worth, in kid-time).  Amazing.  She baked with Emily and played an hour of play-dough with both girls.  

Late that night, Alasdair's mom arrived for a weekend visit.  She is making Emily & Adara's flower girl dresses for Auntie Eowyn's wedding, and over the course of two days managed to almost completely make two beautiful dresses while simultaneously entertaining two adoring granddaughters, and doing all the dishes. I was especially struck by how attached to her Adara was, given that she's spent a lot less time with Granny than Emily has at this point.  But she consistently reached out of my arms for "Dat!"  [her name for Granny:)] 

There's a video of the girls "modelling" their dresses here.  I warned Eowyn tonight that getting the girls to walk down the aisle is going to be nothing compared to getting them to pose for pictures!  Good thing she is a laid-back bride.:)

Shower

I got to go away 'all by myself' last weekend!  I took a bus to Boston and drove with Becky down to Philly for Eowyn's wedding shower.  It was SO wonderful to get some quality family time without the distraction of kids.  We sat in traffic with no crying from the backseat, slept in, had uninterrupted conversations, and went out to dinner at 9pm.  Amazing.  And of course, the point of the weekend, I was so glad to be there to celebrate Eowyn & Ben's upcoming wedding!  I like them a lot. :)

We did an "informal tea" with an eclectic collection of tea cups & mugs, an amazing cake made by a family friend., and some mustache decorations. 

(Emily playing with the word cards my mom made me when I was her age!)

I'm very grateful for a wonderful husband who flew solo with the kids (including a sick baby).  [Well, mostly solo - he did fit in some skiing while my mom watched the girls, and taught Sunday school while my good friend Jill kept our sick kids home with hers.] He got no sleep all weekend, but didn't make me feel guilty for getting away.  I do think I'll wait a little while before I tell him I'm planning to do this again in a couple months.

Spring, Wheee!

The girls and I spent some time today, the first day of spring, on the playground.  This is what it looked like:

I'm not sure I can think of a time when they've both been that happy for that long, doing the same thing.  I pushed them on the swings for half an hour, enjoying the extra daylight at 5pm even if otherwise it sure still looks like winter.  They both wanted to go higher and higher, and delighted in watching each other swing.  

When Adara was ready for another push, she'd say "whee!" - which is also her word for the slide or the hanging rope Emily swings on at gymnastics, both things she loves.  My little thrill seeker. :)